Re: First Post Posted by suz on November 12, 1999 at 07:53:00:
In Reply to: First Post posted by Michael on November 11, 1999 at 11:38:12:
Hi Michael!I definately feel for you as I at one time was in a simular situation myself and advice on such a touchy
subject is something left up to the coach for sure; as a lesson I learned was that your right;you cant change others
but can only work on ourselves!Being a can do woman dictator type myself found that my sentiment of "you only
live once"and have only so much time here to be happy with ourselves made my decision to end my bad marriage
easy!Selfish? perhaps but was the best for both of us in the end; after the pain subsided,life took a wonderful turn
for the better for all involved!Life went on! And friendship became a better end for us indeed!
Divorce can be an amicable thing or a nightmare but actually know many people who shuffle kids,re-marry and
actually live very happy lives!It can be done if the feeling is mutual that the better of all involved is considered!
Be positive!
Suz
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