Who is to blame?/where about's is? Posted by Pauline on February 14, 2001 at 13:24:38:
In Reply to: Re: Spiritual Spinach and Enlightenment~ posted by Sally on February 07, 2001 at 22:52:20:
>>>>> I am slowly realizing that
when I 'detach' from what others think, then I don't feel that way at
all. It is what we think anyway!>>>>>>
Hi Sally,
That is a great - above.....however.....
I went to this great workshop at the weekend....described on this web
site....http://www.thework.com/index.htm
and came away knowing that it's o.k. to self-blame....my "problem
statement" was
Marlene, daughter, shouldn't blame me for her relationship break-ups
and it became
It's o.k. for Marlene to blame me....
It's o.k. for me to blame myself
These being interim steps when the great leap to
blame doesn't belong anywhere is too hard to jump.
I can hold myself sweetly.
I can explain the process more if you want.
love
Pauline.
Also where on page is the article "When the Going Gets Rough"
I printed it out and want to comment and now can't find it.
thanx.
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